From Roganda
Hi everyone! Thanks for letting me join...I think this whole Friday 5 idea is a cool one. Sorry for my general slowness in posting my answers, and for my tardiness today.
Here's the question:
So Valentine's Day is coming up, and my impulse to be timely has overcome my dislike of mush, so today's question concerns love.
"Love is omni-inclusive, progressively exquisite, understanding and tender and compassionately attuned to other than self." R. Buckminster Fuller.
What are five ways that people in your life (any relation: child, parent, spiritual advisor, friend, etc. etc.) have demonstrated through their actions that they love you--whether they meant to or not? (bonus points for interesting, unusual, unexpected or especially subtle examples).
1. My wife married me. OK, this may seem to be a rather obvious choice, but sometimes there is a reason answers are obvious. Up to a year before I met my wife, I was pretty sure I would be a permanent bachelor, with very little evidence to prove otherwise. A few months before I met my wife, I figured I could date people I liked, but not really loved, and I thought that was better than nothing. Then I met my wife, and my life improved tremendously.
2. If you have never been on the receiving end of a smile and running hug from my son, then you have not lived. He has the ability to totally encompass you with affection and love, shutting out everything else. The boy practically radiates love (of course, he is also pretty good at radiating mischievousness and occasionally, evil).
3. I went on a bachelor trip (a week-long trip with my three buds instead of going to a strip bar like normal people). On this trip we stopped at Roswell, NM and I bought a tiny alien doll for my daughter, then 2. She loved the doll. It was the first toy she ever named (Bee-Bee) and she carried it constantly for over a year. Even today, 3 years later, she occasionally asks to go to sleep with it and takes it on trips. Her love for that doll, something that I got her, showed me how much a two year old loved me. Not only did she love on me, but she loved on the things I gave her.
4. My parents taking off work and taking me to auditions as a child. They encouraged me 100% in acting and filmmaking. I never once heard worries about how I would make money, or get a stable life or anything like it. My parents supported me 100% in my acting. They got me an agent, they got me headshots, they drove me all over the state for auditions and shoots. They always were ready with advice (often times wrong advice because they did not understand the industry, but that was ok) and encouragement. I know of few parents who would so easily and readily support their children in such a risky and time consuming pursuit.
5. All of my friends who have help me make movies. Movies are long, arduous, painfully dull things to create, and I have had the good fortune to make a few thanks to the willing services of good friends. People who gave up sleep, rest, a decent meal and many other more entertaining things to help me make movies. Each bit of help was nothing but an act of friendship and love.
Other F5 participants are: Melissa, Adam, Merideth, Will, Gina, Gord, Adrienne, Marvin, Rob, Laura, Jon, Ritu, Julie, Morgaine, Rik, Fionna, Ray and Mojave Sixty-Six.